TRUTH

Truth--may not always be a fact but a relevant truth!! Y is it so hard to look in the mirror and see who you truly are? Be real to yourself & accept your flaws, imperfections, and mistakes...learn from them , grow from them, & challenge someone to be true to thine own self daily!!

Integrity--of good moral character!! Who are you when no one else is looking?

Relationships are a two way streets often divided, curves, and misdirections but with true love & integrity it can be whatever you 2 make it be!!

LET UR HATA'S MOTIVATE U 2 XCELLENCE!!

All to often people want to use the crab mentality and keep you down. Stop allowing others to have control over your life. You set the tone & no one can do anything you don't allow! Time is over for feeling sorry for your self. Shake that dirt off your shoulders & get on about your business.

Someone will always be prettier--but she will never be you!

Someone will always be thinner--but she will never be you!

Someone will always be smarter--but she will never be you!

Someone will always have more money--but she will Never BE you!

Take the T off of Can't and put a spin on things because you CAN do whatever you so choose!!

Whatever has already happened is just that already a part of your past that you can never change. So learn from your mistakes but be a little smarter learn from others mistakes and thrive for success. You define it not your family, friends, or externals but YOU!!


Stop coveting other peoples lives because no one has it perfect & things aren't always what they appear to be.

Dream bigger, pray harder, smile bigger, and refuse to give up!!!

2ND2NONE

Can I speak to you for a moment...the intimacy between you & I is unreal...tempted to try things i never have before!!If I could venture into the unknown would you go with me? Take me to the your galaxy allow me to roam free. How eventful this could be. Moving the earth with the most frequent vibration leading to a great explosion. Can you guess what it is???It's a toss between an earthquake or a volcano!!

Get ur mind out of the gutter!!

Help for the Broken Hearted & confused!!

I simply can't go another da wondering where I stand. Am I yet again straddling the fence or have I fallen over the edge. Something in me is seeking for wholeness but I am still broken. I have accomplished many things in this world but the one thing I desire & lack is a committed, unmoveable, unshakeable relationship wit my father the Almighty God!

I keep moving but I need to stay still. i cry aloud often and feel drained mentally, physically, and emotionally. When will this pass? Open my heart God that I may receive your word & be able to see me as you see me. It's hard to accept love when my earthly father hasn't been here for me. I know let it go it's the past but It hurts so bad. Thirty-four years later it still hurts & it matters so deeply to me.

God i need wholness because the ache within my soul can only be repaired by you. Show mercy to me...hold me in your arms & love on me..God I need LOVE!!

Forbidden Love

Why is it every guy I like never wants to commit? Or better yet he's already committed and has left that detail out!! I have a remedy for this....keep looking. Often times we as nurturing women are too leninet and passive it's time to toughen up.!! Okay men I won't leave you out nobody wants a pushover. If you could ask five questions what would they be?

1. What are you most passionate about?
2. What are your goals short and long-term?
3. If I could ask your ex to describe you in one word what would it be?
4. Are you financially, emotionally, and physically stable?
5. Last but not least....What are you looking for?

How many times have we saw a handsome/pretty face and ignored all the pertinent questions? Tons!! So in my quest to get love & never be cheated I've taken on the task of going after what I truly want. No looking over my pet peeves, no ignoring lack of conversation, or no chemistry. No judging a book by it's cover.

Tips we can use:

Expensive car means tons of debt mostly or compensation for an absence

If it's too good to be true IT IS!!

Don't ignore the warning signs...Ladies LISTEN a man will tell you everything you need to know in his conversation & his actions! Guys or hers!!

Be honest it hurts less. Set your goal high you deserve it!

Here is a little something I've written called forbidden love..enjoy!!

Forbidden Love

Have you ever wandered astray and walked a forbidden path? Only to encounter someone you knew you couldn’t have.
Have you ever wanted to cry, but all you could do was laugh? Always trying to be first but ending up coming in last.
Have you ever had goose bumps or your heart skip a beat? Longing for a touch or something just beyond your reach?
Have you realized just how blind you can be even though the reward is just at your feet?
Forbidden lover have you seen the way your eyes look at me?